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As of 9/20/07 – The Parent e-Bulletin
& PCEP Parents’ information is posted on TangentLife
Website: Shortcut Tip: Parents can find most of the news that used to be in
the old Parent Bulletin under the section called SCHOOLS. But some
of the articles may be posted under SPORTS , MUSIC or LIVE
THEATRE . Click on
Schools or Sports and all current articles will be listed. All
articles will start out with name of school, ie.
PCEP or PCCS. Any Send information to debra@TangentLife.com Take a few minutes and look around the website. |
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P-CEP Parents established January 1997 |
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salem – canton – plymouth – starkweather center parents - students - staff – community |
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Last Updated Sept 20, 2007
Copyright © 1997 ~ 2007 All Rights Reserved |
Parents are an
important asset to the positive environment of all our schools
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Never lend your car to anyone to
whom you have given birth. Erma Bombeck |
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Imagine – All Children … A District-Wide
Parent Involvement Committee |
Parenting with Love and Logic Classes QuixWorks Therapeutic Massage – for children of special needs & the
elderly, as well as their families & caretakers
Is Parental Involvement in their Children's
Education Important? Sprains, Breaks and Concussions |
BACKPACKS: How heavy is too heavy? N E W S F L A S H: Teens Need More Sleep Does it Matter if Teens Smoke? |
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Attention Parents |
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April 17, 2007 A Note to Parents: The Parent Group was started in the fall of 1996. The note in the box below is an updated
version of a letter that we posted on the Parent Website. As you read through the note, you’ll
realize why current events prompted me to re-post it today. When my oldest son started high school, one of the hot
issues was whether kids should have cell phones. My son and I argued about it
constantly. I thought they were
horrible, unnecessary items. My son
claimed they were essential and a lifeline to his friends As my children have gotten older, I’ve waited for those
times when they realize that my husband and I did know a few things. My sons
have acknowledged, from time to time that, as parents, we’re okay. More importantly, I have to acknowledge that my kids knew
more than I thought they did. Like most people, I’ve been watching and listening to
the news, until I just need to turn it off for a while. But then, I need to turn the news back
on. Like most parents, I’m forced to
think about the unimportant arguments I’ve had with my kids, and wish I could
focus on the important things more often.
Yesterday, I thought back about the disagreements I had
with my oldest son about his cell phone and wish I had bought one for him
earlier. I can’t even imagine sending
any of my kids out the door any more with out a cell phone. I’m sure there were many parents of
Virginia Tech students who were so grateful that their child had a phone
yesterday. My oldest son was right
about those phones. And to one of my other sons, who called me yesterday ,
just to check in -- because he knew what I was thinking about
-- I want to thank him. I am the last member, of the original parent group,
still at the Park. I’ll be graduating,
along with my youngest son, in a few weeks.
I urge all parents at PCEP and
at other schools, to continue to band
together … for more than fundraisers. In times like these, parents need to be part of a larger
group. We have to be able to connect
to our children, other parents, teachers, not just in preschool and grade
school, but also middle school, high school, college and beyond. Can parent involvement reduce violence in schools? What can?
When I heard about the shootings at Virginia Tech, my first
thoughts were of my own children, no where near Virginia, all in |
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September 7, 2003 The Parent Group maintains a
list of the names, phone numbers, and emails of parents who are interested in
volunteered at P-CEP and receiving information about activities at the high
schools. In the past, the staff contacted the parent group when they need
help with a job, and the parent group would call parent volunteers. Now we
often share a list of volunteers with the staff. It's been a great help, but
the downside has been that the parent group didn't have any way of knowing if
all volunteers had been contacted. We apologize if you have
volunteered for a task and not been contacted. Please feel free to contact
the parent group again. We appreciate all those who have signed up for
specific tasks and will do our best to contact you. When the Parent Group was
formed, about 10% of the parents who volunteered had email. Today most
parents have email and use it. Now, we use the weekly email bulletin to
request volunteer help. We also post the weekly bulletin
on the website at: It has become more efficient to use
the bulletin than the lists of parents who have specifically signed up for a
job. No one wants to be on the phone
making phone calls anymore. For the rest of this year we
will continue to use the lists of volunteers, as well as the weekly bulletin.
By next year, we will only use the bulletin to contact parents about
volunteer opportunities and activities at P-CEP. If you know of anyone who signed
up for the bulletin and aren't receiving it, please have them send a note to
this email. There may have been a problem sending their email because of a
mistake made when the data was entered The Parent Involvement Group
started in January 1997. Parents, (Mara Patterson, Marnie
Holdefer, Sally Welch, Mary Novrocki, Vicki
Garrett, Carol Carpinelli, and Debbie Madonna), met with Salem principal,
Jerry Ostoin, and Canton principal, Pat Patton, to
discuss ways in which parents could be more involved and welcomed at the high
schools. The purpose of the group was to help parents "navigate"
through high school; to encourage a sense of cooperation and understanding
between students, staff, and parents; develop areas in need of parental
assistance and/or involvement; and to improve communications with families.
(In 1999, Linda "Research has shown that parents can
increase children's academic success through involvement with schools and
communities. Parental
involvement improves student morale, attitudes, and academic achievement
across all subject areas. … by getting involved, parents reduce children's
risk of academic failure and dropping out before graduation. Children's
behavior and social adjustment improve when parents' are proactive with
schools and neighborhoods to cultivate an environment that promotes learning."
http://www.cppp.org/kidscount/education/parental_involvement.html The first official act of the Parent
Involvement Committee was to host a Staff Appreciation Breakfast. We had
enough parents to serve hot food, fruit, and bagels to the entire staff at
P-CEP. When the date was set in the winter of 1999, no one knew how much the
staff would need that breakfast. The first staff appreciation breakfast took
place the morning after Columbine. Parental involvement in grade
school is being a reading mom, field trip chaperone, fundraiser, etc. By the
time kids become teenagers, our relationship with our growing children
changes. Parental involvement looks different, but is still very important. Parents of teenagers don't want
to be involved in their children's lives because they're afraid to let their
kids grow up or because they can't make good decisions without us. It's
pretty clear that the kids at P-CEP are very responsible. Walk around the
school on any given day and kids are doing what they are supposed to do. Parents want to be a part of
their children's lives: when they're little and when it seems like they're
all grown up and don't need us anymore. And even though kids don't always
admit it, they like having their parents involved in their lives -- just
not always in the same room, but in their lives, nonetheless. Dr Spock said to parents, "Trust yourself.
You know more than you think you do." Dr. Brazelton says, "Parents in our culture
are eager to be told what to do, telling parents what to do is destructive,
supporting them in what they want to do is constructive." We think they’re right. |
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The greatest gift . . . is the
realization that life does not consist either of wallowing in the past or of
peering anxiously at the future; and it is appalling to contemplate the great
number of often painful steps by which one arrives at a truth so old, so
obvious, and so frequently expressed. It is good for one to appreciate that
life is now. Whatever it offers, little or much, life is now—this day—this
hour. Charles Macomb Flandrau |
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